my day off..

So yesterday i said f*** it, i left, went to johnson city TN to meet this girl ive been chatting with on the internet for some time.....only an hours drive so it wasnt bad....however she had such an impact i got a hotel and stayed in town the ngiht so i could be with her.....shes amazing, everything ive ever wanted...

she just lives in the wrong god forsaken town :(

oh well....i know a lot of you complain about never finding anyone and how they are all assholes and stuff but i always thought the same way and now i found one out there for me, the perfect girl for me (albeit, in an imperfect place) so if jordus can get a girl.....ANY of you can ;)


feeling like an loser all goes away when your holding an angel in your arms like i did last night.....

sorry im high on "love"

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D

[SL04P0PR]

how long have you 2 been talking? I'm not naysaying here or anything, but never, and [u]I MEAN NEVER[/i], jump into these things too quickly. i don't care how good it may seem. i'm talking from experience here... cuz things can change in the blink of an eye...

however, I do congraduate you on the good find ;)

Originally posted by SL04P0PR
how long have you 2 been talking? I'm not naysaying here or anything, but never, and [u]I MEAN NEVER[/i], jump into these things too quickly. i don't care how good it may seem. i'm talking from experience here... cuz things can change in the blink of an eye...

however, I do congraduate you on the good find ;)

over 6 months goo......this girl is great though....and i know your right, but see herein lies a problem.....i know she likes me, its obvious....but she is keeping herself from a relationship with me solely because the distance, many guys have hurt her and she thinks im gonna do the same adn get board of the drive, get tired of coming to see her....which is NOT the case, so what do i do? how do i show her its worth atleast TRYing.....cause i dunno, shes the best girl ive found in a looooong time.

[TJ95GAGT]

show her that you care, and tell her how u feel when its the right time. Over time she SHOULD realize that your different and if something is there between you two then she shouldnt not pursue a relationship cause of past guys. I know I had to try and try with my current g/f cause of past guys, granted it was easier since we live closer, but we to ment on the net.

alittle off topic but I dont think I'd get tired of drivin if i was drivin your car. LOL.

Originally posted by TJ95GAGT
show her that you care, and tell her how u feel when its the right time. Over time she SHOULD realize that your different and if something is there between you two then she shouldnt not pursue a relationship cause of past guys. I know I had to try and try with my current g/f cause of past guys, granted it was easier since we live closer, but we to ment on the net.

alittle off topic but I dont think I'd get tired of drivin if i was drivin your car. LOL.

you wouldnt beleive the number of girls hollerin at me cause of the car up there...


needless to say im gonna apply to goto ETSU (east tennessee state) which is right ther in town....i nkow lots of guys going there plus she lives there plus i need to get off my ass and get into college. so thats where im going....if not this semester hopefully i can move there and get an apartment for a few months or something :(

ive been talknig to her alot since i got home but....she is a tough cookie :(

there has to be somethign i can do....

ive offered to go back up tomm or tues or whenever she wants me to but shes still bein tough :(

[Josh]

Originally posted by BadAzz96AED
you wouldnt beleive the number of girls hollerin at me cause of the car up there...


needless to say im gonna apply to goto ETSU (east tennessee state) which is right ther in town....i nkow lots of guys going there plus she lives there plus i need to get off my ass and get into college. so thats where im going....if not this semester hopefully i can move there and get an apartment for a few months or something :(

Do not pick a college because of a girl, go there for the courses and ect..... Because you will most likely not be with her forever....

[KaRtOoN187]

Alright man...I know EXACTLY what you are going through right now. My girl lives in Cleveland, and I am here in Cincinnati. There is no one thing you can do that is going to change her mind, all you have to do is prove to her that your feelings are strong, and that, she is worth your time, energy, love and affection. Long distance Relationships CAN work, as long as you are willing to put the time into it. It sounds like she is a good girl that has had her heart broken too many times before. All you have to do, is be yourself, and give her all the affection she needs and wants. Dont let the relationship change things such as how you talk to her, etc. Just be Jordan...thats all you can be dood...its never about what you say, especially to someone who has heard it all before...its about what you do, and how much you want to be there...I have faith in you dood...she will know what to do, just leave the decision to her.
peace

[KaRtOoN187]

Josh...that is not necessarily true...they may be together forever, if thats what they choose to do...I have a feeling this is not just a booty call...it sounds real...and besides, you can always transfer to another school...do what you have to do, to get closer to what you want and like...everybody makes sacrifices in life...and moving to that school may be the one that counts the most...
peace

Originally posted by KaRtOoN187
Alright man...I know EXACTLY what you are going through right now. My girl lives in Cleveland, and I am here in Cincinnati. There is no one thing you can do that is going to change her mind, all you have to do is prove to her that your feelings are strong, and that, she is worth your time, energy, love and affection. Long distance Relationships CAN work, as long as you are willing to put the time into it. It sounds like she is a good girl that has had her heart broken too many times before. All you have to do, is be yourself, and give her all the affection she needs and wants. Dont let the relationship change things such as how you talk to her, etc. Just be Jordan...thats all you can be dood...its never about what you say, especially to someone who has heard it all before...its about what you do, and how much you want to be there...I have faith in you dood...she will know what to do, just leave the decision to her.
peace

I dunno this shits a roller coaster....i still cant beleive it all worked out the way it did and it happened all so easily but it did, and i dont think the big guy would let it all happen for just no reason....and i care about this girl, i really do....shes gorgeous but on top of that, i learned thigns about her and her personality over 6 months before being in her presence.....but with my luck, this wont work out and itll all be for not, thats about the way my life goes......:(

[Josh]

Originally posted by BadAzz96AED
I dunno this shits a roller coaster....i still cant beleive it all worked out the way it did and it happened all so easily but it did, and i dont think the big guy would let it all happen for just no reason....and i care about this girl, i really do....shes gorgeous but on top of that, i learned thigns about her and her personality over 6 months before being in her presence.....but with my luck, this wont work out and itll all be for not, thats about the way my life goes......:(

join the line for the great amusement park ride called "LIFE" I am also in the line!

I have just completed my application for East Tennessee State University, and hopefully within the next month-2 months ill be living there full time......however sacrifices must be made....A move, when your 18 and your parents cant help you is abig move, an expensive move.....Which is why i have to announce the official retirement of my car.....no longer will i modify it to any further extent, because all of my funds must be put to good, mature, use. Im moving on with my life and trying to become a man, rather than an 18 year old bum that spends his life on car forum. Im sure you guys understand. No im not parting my car out, itll stay how it is, but no further. Im dead serious about this girl and I told her distance wouldnt shut me down, and Im not about to let it.

[TJ95GAGT]

Sounds good man. Hope you get accepted, I started at University of Delaware but it wasnt for me, im now 2 semesters from an assoc. degree. Good Luck with the moving out too, Hopefully next summer I'll be moving out of my parents house, its free rent as long as I'm in school FT. My g/f and I have been putting fake rent money into savings every month so when we do move out its not such a hit funds wise.

[KaRtOoN187]

Jordan...you have to be positive in all this...seriously. I mean, this woman that I am with, is my first relationship, outside of something being purely sexual. It can be scary as hell, but the outcome, is amazing. Be good to her, care for her, and love her, and she will always be there...
peace

Originally posted by KaRtOoN187
Jordan...you have to be positive in all this...seriously. I mean, this woman that I am with, is my first relationship, outside of something being purely sexual. It can be scary as hell, but the outcome, is amazing. Be good to her, care for her, and love her, and she will always be there...
peace

Ive done a lot of thinking today (she was at work so i couldnt be on the phone with her :) ) and your right.....im trying to be as positive as i can, and the whole thing does get discerning at times but.....im trying to hold up....it hurts leaving there....im going back later this week to look at apartments and such. :)