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RavynX · #31 (**permalink**) 12-12-2003, 11:24 PM

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Originally posted by jeremy96gase
Sometime in 2006 my girl and I are getting married.
She's got the big phatty ring and everything.

Congratulations Jeremy! =)

I might be graduating that year or the next from Texas A&M. =)

jeremy96gase · #32 (**permalink**) 12-12-2003, 11:26 PM

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Originally posted by RavynX
Congratulations Jeremy! =)

I might be graduating that year or the next from Texas A&M. =)

Thanks, and awesome best of luck to you!

GrandIllusion · #33 (**permalink**) 12-13-2003, 05:32 PM

nice score man. how did u do it cant be on your looks lol congrads man :beer:

thenige · #34 (**permalink**) 12-15-2003, 10:55 PM

such compassion for Jordus... I don't fully agree with his statements.. however i do find it amusing how it evolved into people posting pics and talking about how f**king happy they are.. ahahaha..

for those of you are completely glazed and happy.. enjoy it while it lasts.. cuzz things will change over time.. better be prepared..

for those of you who feel like you are getting f**ked over.. well believe it.. cuzz in my view.. the world has become like that in a lot of ways..

for those who have felt an enormous, expansive connection with a lover, and lost it (over time, such as myself).. you can't make it happen again.. u just have to wait and see if it happens.. if it does.. you'll know.

blah blah blah.. i know i know.. :p

darkfox · #35 (**permalink**) 12-15-2003, 11:03 PM

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Originally posted by thenige
for those who have felt an enormous, expansive connection with a lover, and lost it (over time, such as myself).. you can't make it happen again.. u just have to wait and see if it happens.. if it does.. you'll know.

The profundity of that statement boggles my mind.

I have learned that you can never force anything in life, regardless of how hard you want it. You just have to try your best to play your part... and see what happens.

RavynX · #36 (**permalink**) 12-15-2003, 11:37 PM

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Originally posted by darkfox
The profundity of that statement boggles my mind.

I have learned that you can never force anything in life, regardless of how hard you want it. You just have to try your best to play your part... and see what happens.

You hit the nail right on the head. =P

GrandIllusion · #37 (**permalink**) 12-26-2003, 01:46 AM

i believe you reap what you sow. and ive been hurt and ive hurt some but it is a fair share. and the one girl im with now is mine forever and i dont think that will change we both have views on what we want and have worked towards it equally. joint venture my friends

darkfox · #38 (**permalink**) 12-26-2003, 04:48 AM

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Originally posted by RavynX
You hit the nail right on the head. =P

yeah and thats the part that sucks... cause it never works out the way u want it lol

RavynX · #39 (**permalink**) 12-26-2003, 10:11 AM

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Originally posted by darkfox
yeah and thats the part that sucks... cause it never works out the way u want it lol

Yeah, unfortunutately. Just have to hope for the best.

thenige · #40 (**permalink**) 12-26-2003, 05:40 PM

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Originally posted by GrandIllusion
i believe you reap what you sow. and ive been hurt and ive hurt some but it is a fair share. and the one girl im with now is mine forever and i dont think that will change we both have views on what we want and have worked towards it equally. joint venture my friends

yeps.. u reap what u sow.. shit i've thrown over 10 years ago has recently come back right in my face.. not always easy to make the connection though.. that's why many are doomed to repeat history.. ignore it or fail to learn from it and you'll never get anywhere. And learning is one-sided.. so it's your sole responsibility to learn.. teachers can't make you learn.

joint venture.. agreed... forever? i wish you both the best, as the only thing that is constant.. is change . . Handle that well and you're both golden.

Happy holidays! :beer:

GrandIllusion · #41 (**permalink**) 12-26-2003, 09:06 PM

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Originally posted by thenige
yeps.. u reap what u sow.. shit i've thrown over 10 years ago has recently come back right in my face.. not always easy to make the connection though.. that's why many are doomed to repeat history.. ignore it or fail to learn from it and you'll never get anywhere. And learning is one-sided.. so it's your sole responsibility to learn.. teachers can't make you learn.

joint venture.. agreed... forever? i wish you both the best, as the only thing that is constant.. is change . . Handle that well and you're both golden.

Happy holidays! :beer:

must agree fully. and yes i know forever is a strong word to use in a relationship but it is gonna work only if me and her make it work which means we have to change with each other. i alway was like my parents/teachers are full of shit well guess what i should of learned from them but i was bullheaded and desided to take my own path and i have plenty of bumps and bruise to prove not to do that dumb shit again expecially with kids

so the moral is LISTEN to ur parents there older and wiser i know this from learning the hard way.

thenige · #42 (**permalink**) 12-30-2003, 05:05 PM

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Originally posted by GrandIllusion
(snip) i alway was like my parents/teachers are full of shit well guess what i should of learned from them but i was bullheaded and desided to take my own path and i have plenty of bumps and bruise to prove not to do that dumb shit again expecially with kids

so the moral is LISTEN to ur parents there older and wiser i know this from learning the hard way.

So let me get this straight.. you thot your parents/teachers were full of sh*t... you have lots of bumps and bruises.. however you have learned from it and won't do that with your kids?

I think that's great! ... now.. many of us with older parents, (or some with none such as myself), can tell you that when it comes to relationships, childrearing, etc... some parents know sh*t except how to put a roof over your head and food in your mouth. That's a reality for many, AND, it's not your parents fault.. it's all they know or how they were raised themselves. Time to break the mold.

I think the moral is to be smart and take very little of anything anyone tells you at face value. The only way you are going to 'get it'.. is to reflect and learn from it yourself. Teachers and parents aren't 'learning'.. learning comes from inside.

Yeah i know.. blah blah blah.

darkfox · #43 (**permalink**) 12-30-2003, 07:43 PM

the smart thing to do is learn from others... not what they say, but what they do. See what works and what fails, and learn from that. If your parents were sucky parents, well duh, don't do what they did... find out what your friends parents are like, how their kids turned out, how they were raised, blah blah blah...

thenige · #44 (**permalink**) 12-30-2003, 08:35 PM

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Originally posted by darkfox
the smart thing to do is learn from others... not what they say, but what they do. See what works and what fails, and learn from that. If your parents were sucky parents, well duh, don't do what they did... find out what your friends parents are like, how their kids turned out, how they were raised, blah blah blah...

pretty good call dark.. however I can't agree.. there is no recipe for success here.. you just got to keep trying until you find what works.. quite a journey .. with lots and lots of variables.. aside from the obvious things.

darkfox · #45 (**permalink**) 12-31-2003, 12:05 AM

yeah your right. Such is life. It was a good stab in the dark tho.