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10-18-2003, 02:58 PM
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because they're STUPID! i have something neat... let's see if i can find it... (I'm not Garrett Hols, and didn't write this...) it's unbelievably true!
NICE GUYS FINISH LAST By: Garrett Hols It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the asshole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the asshole. But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the asshole. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants… ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all.
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10-18-2003, 11:14 PM
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They wont listen dood. None of them do.
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10-19-2003, 01:56 AM
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AHEM... not ALL :D . i will agree that MOST are that way.... as far as guys go.... i used to have a best friend who i talked to about everything, and we almost tried going a step further, but then he got his ex all in his head again.... so that didnt happen. a year later, after i had gotten over him and we were just friends again... he wanted to try it again. now that i am sober, i am not interested in being in a relationship with someone who is using... and it is hard to find a nice guy around here that is not using anything :( . yea, he is a nice guy... and maybe if he gets his life in order then we could try for a relationship... but now i have the issue of my soberity (which is the most important thing in the world to me) that i refuse to place behind any other aspect of my life... although Angel is right up next to my soberity in the importance list of my life :D. so i just stay single... b/c after my last bf, i dont care if i ever have anybody in my life again.... to me, being in a relationship means a 24 hour babysitting task.... most guys i run across that are around my age are immature, using drugs, or can't stand the fact that the two most important things in my life will always be before them.... thats just the way it is... call me a bitch if you want to, but i gotta keep my priorties straight :cool:
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10-19-2003, 04:06 AM
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what you need, Angel, is someone who will support you, and be there for you whenever you need them to be. It all comes down to whether or not you can communicate, support, and love the other person. I have realized, that it's not about what you look like, what kind of front you put up, or what your social status is when comes to women and dating and love, it comes down to compassion, sincerity, protection, support, comforting, and most importantly, love. Everyone...everyone in the WORLD wants that and needs all of those things to survive in a world full of hatred and disrespect. The only thing I can say for sure, is be yourself. You start acting like someone else, you will get punked out everytime, I guarantee it. Because there may be someone there, that likes you because you are who you are...and not who you are portraying to be...keep an open mind, open your hearts...without pain and sacrifice, there is no joy and love...
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10-19-2003, 04:44 AM
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im sorry but i just don't agree with that. If i am to give my love to any girl, i am willing to let that person be the most important thing in my life. In fact, when i love a girl she IS the most important thing in my life at that point in time. If she not willing to let me be the most important thing in her life, then she isn't worth my time. And another thing... my car isn't on the high priority list in my life. Its up there, yeah... but if i loose it its not a big deal you know? ITS JUST A CAR! it doesn't give a crap about you... it just turns on in the morning and runs. If i were to lose it, i can always get another one. Its not like that with someone special in your life. If you lose them... then they're gone, and they can't be replaced. Last edited by darkfox : 10-19-2003 at 04:47 AM.
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10-19-2003, 01:07 PM
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but but but my car is one of a kind...:( nah fuck it, id rather have love... if anyone knows a hot girl who will fall in love with me, they can have my car *sniffle* :(
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10-19-2003, 06:25 PM
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thats it im going to start being an arsehole from now on so i can get women.
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10-19-2003, 06:45 PM
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aint gonna work fellas...
peace
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10-19-2003, 07:27 PM
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Hey Jordus, how about if I'm a goofy lookin dude? Can I still have your car? I promise to love (and/or have?) and to hold, to honor and cherish you :p
If you truly love your car though, you won't put it as a priority above her, then she'll turn psycho and whack it up when you break up...
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10-20-2003, 12:08 AM
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Well.... if a girl and me break up, she immediatly goes BENEATH my car on my priority list... so if she wacks my car up...
um, i just won't say. just kidding. ;) :D
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10-20-2003, 12:18 AM
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